When the Penis Is Waaaay Too Big, According to Women
When the Penis Is Waaaay Too Big, According to Women
All one has to do if they are interested in the average human penis size is to just google it. There are many reputable studies that have been done. A large study was done at the famous Kinsey Institute of the University of Indiana (and published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine) regarding penile length and circumference. Even though over 1600 men self measured they thought they were measuring to be custom fitted for condom usage which reduced the tendency to exaggerate. For those interested in bell curves, standard deviations, etc. this condom site offers all the data: condom size and facts
You know how penises come in different sizes? So do vaginas.
Some do. There are women with longer vaginas that can happily accommodate a footlong; there are women with shorter who won’t do more than 6″ because they know it’ll end up in pain and tears. There are women with looser labia who need girth to feel something, and women with tighter labia who find girth painful. Everyone has flexibility, but there are biological limits, too.
There is no one-size-fits-all. Whatever your size, big or small, someone out there will enjoy it. Your partners will even work around an incompatible size if they like you enough. It’s really not worth worrying about something you can’t change
I am male, Indian and well endowed by Indian standards, so I would try to answer this question:
Do women like big penises?
Yes, in the era of all pervasive porn, they fantasize about big penises. You can search big penis/ big dick/ huge dick on quora itself and see how many women are fixated on the same. I have shown my penis on chats etc and have seen women drooling over the size and width of it. I have been successful in bedding few of such women.
Now, Do women really like big penises?
When I was young, my skills in satisfying women were not that great. Though my elder cousin admired my size, she often mocked my skills in satisfying her. But over the years my skills in bed have considerably improved and the women I have bedded liked me more and more. Some think it is because of size and width as it stretches their pussies well. Others think that it is because of my stamina.
So size does matter but without the skill set of using it properly, it means little.
Here is another even more comprehensive site on size: Penis Size Percentile Calculator
So if, according to the studies, only 7% of men are longer than 7 inches, or so, and only 5% are bigger in girth than 6 inches, or so, then most women will probably never have even encountered an unusually large penis, unless, of course, they were lucky enough (or unlucky) to have encountered one, or they had enough sexual partners to increase the odds of encountering one. If your wife or girlfriend has had dozens of sexual partners then she may be a good judge of what average, small and large are. Otherwise, if she has only had a small number of partners then the odds are that she has only experienced what most men have…average penis size. However, if your girlfriend, upon initially seeing your erect penis says, Wow! that’s a huge penis!” then she has probably seen a lot of penises!! haha.
The bottom line is this guys. There is nothing you can do about your height, your foot size or your penis size. Get over these things. Work on being a good person, stay in shape and have some ambition in life. This will attract more women than your penis. By the time a girl wants to see your penis she is probably pretty interested in you for other reasons anyway.
After every sexual escapade my friends and I enjoyed in college, we'd ask each other one very big, important question: "Was he packing the heat?"
I’m sure every man has had this question at least once in their mind. And that is only because they’re led to believe that the bigger the penis, the better the sex, which makes women very happy.
However, multiple studies and surveys done across the globe show that women actually don’t care about penis sizes at all. So there is definitely not one particular preference that women have when it comes to penises.
Instead, I’m going to take a few popular myths about penis sizes and explain why they’re utterly wrong!
Myth #1: The average penis is really large.
Don’t let porn convince you that the majority of men are walking around with 7 inch penises (or larger). According to several studies, the worldwide average penis length is 5.2 inches, and about 90% of men fall within an inch of this average on either side. Some studies have shown that the average length for Indian men is around 4 inches. As for width, worldwide averages place circumference at 4.6 inches. Statistically, chances are your penis size is pretty normal, and not something you need to worry about.
Myth #2: I can’t satisfy my partner unless I have a large penis.
This is one of the most harmful myths around, and is simply untrue. For those with female partners, remember that most women don’t or can’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone, i.e., can’t have a vaginal orgasm. Clitoral orgasms are far more common, and is most probably the type your partner is having anyway. Studies have shown that the majority of heterosexual women are indifferent to penis size, and that clitoral stimulation and foreplay is more important for them during sex. The average vaginal depth, too, is 4-5 inches, and large penises often cause more pain than pleasure. Ultimately, it’s not about your size, but about how you use it.
Myth #3: A penis should be really, really straight.
Just like men, penises come in all shapes and sizes. Having a curve to your erection is pretty normal, and can often make penetrative sex more enjoyable for both you and your partner. However, if you think your erection has too extreme of a bend, you might benefit from talking to a medical professional about it.
Myth #4: If I’m small when soft, I’ll be small when hard, too.
Nope. Growers and showers are a real thing! The majority of men have a significant difference between their penis size when flaccid and erect. Equally, if you belong to the camp that shows rather than grows, that’s pretty normal too. Either way, you don’t have to stress about it.
Myth #5: Masturbation affects my penis size.
No matter how much or how little you masturbate, it won’t affect the size of your penis. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either taking you on a ride or needs a little educating themselves.
Myth #6: My shoe size indicates how big my penis is.
A 2002 study showed no correlation between a man’s shoe size and his penis length. So no, bigger feet don’t mean a bigger penis, and neither do smaller feet equal a smaller penis.
Myth #7: I can take pills to increase my penis size.
Anyone claiming to sell you products that increase your penis size is definitely trying to steal your money. There’s no miracle medicine, pill or herb you can take that’ll make you larger — short of surgery (and I don’t recommend that). If you’re still down in the dumps about the size of your guy, go re-read myth #2 and remind yourself that pleasurable sex ≠ a large penis.
Couple of weeks ago I received a message on Quora that “what is your dick size?”. It feels little bit awkward for me that a girl is asking for my penis size on her very first chat. I was surprised that my penis size really makes any difference on her.
I googled, and found that it is very normal for a girl, that she may ask you for penis size to begin sex chat. However, in reply I told her that I have slightly more than 6″ inches when erected.
Then in follow up messages, she said your penis is very small, my boyfriend has 7 inches penis and he still unable to satisfy me. I need someone with much more size.
I replied, girl satisfaction is not about big dick only, you should also know the art of using your penis to satisfy a girl. If big penis is the only solution then your ex boyfriend has enough size to satisfy you. And then chat continues.
After these talks, I was bit worried about my penis size. I googled again about this mystery whether girl really enjoy big dicks or not?
I read many articles, blogs and found that there is no accurate answer whether she enjoys or not.
The survey published on guardian that according to an international study on over 15000 penises found that an average sizes for a penis is 5.1″ to 6.3″-6.4″ with 4.8–5.0″ (girth/ circumference) when erected. Mine is nearly 6.3″ before reaching to orgasm. So it's a big relief for me.
I also found that girls has no sexual pleasure with big length sizes. Infact, they are little bit scared of big length penises because they might damage the vagina from inside. However, they only prefer big sizes for hook ups and one night stands. Girls mostly reached to orgasm through clitoris stimulation.
Moreover, for long term relationships, women prefer penises with larger girth rather than big length. It is not confirmed but large girth penises might hit clitoris during deep penetration, which has good chance of clitoris simulation.
Concluding, yes women likes big dick but with respect to girth not in length. If you have an average size penis within 5.1″ to 6.4″ with 4.5 girth. Then you are perfectly fine. Now you just have to learn the art of using your dick to satisfy a women.
It's almost comical to think having a big penis equates to good sex, because, honestly -- and this is something I wish I could scream at my early 20-something self -- that's just total bullshit. Does that mean the ladies don’t typically prefer a big D? Nope. Because those are still great. But it does mean how you use it will almost always trump size. And sometimes too big can be, well, a problem.
Just ask these nine gals who agreed to share their too-big-penis horror stories.
Blow jobs are absolute nightmares
"Girth is definitely a game-changer for getting off, so in my opinion that’s the real advantage of a big dick. It’s really more how they use it though. One way big dicks totally suck is for blow jobs. One guy I dated has a wide and really long penis, and that made giving one pretty awful. I was literally gagging all over the thing to the point it felt like I could throw up -- and just drooling saliva everywhere. I kept having to stop and take breaks, which made it harder for to him finish. With a small penis, you can put the entire thing in your mouth, and they finish in like five minutes." -- Kelly, 30"The biggest dick I’ve still ever encountered to this day is when I was 18 years old... I don’t even think I really knew what a big dick was in the grand scheme of things -- this was only the second one I had ever encountered. I obviously didn't have much to compare it to. But I knew when I first saw it I was taken aback big time... 15 years later, it’s still the biggest one I’ve ever seen. The bad part about it is I just started assuming sex was always going to be painful because I didn’t know any better! It was like losing my virginity again and again every time we had sex. I had to, like, gear up for it. We dated into college, and I’ll admit, once we got a little more practice, the girth of his penis definitely made things get better. It got really good, actually. That also came with just getting more comfortable. But when you come out the gate with something like that, every other penis you see seems sorta average." -- Katie, 28
Guys with huge penises have less sex, not more
“I once hooked up with this guy whose penis was seriously like a Coke can. I refused to even have sex with him, it was too wide. It wouldn’t even fit in my mouth! We went our separate ways, and later I found out he decided to actually get surgery to make it smaller.” -- Stephanie, 29Big dicks restrict your sexual repertoire
"You know that episode of Sex and the City where they say a hot guy never thinks he has to be good at sex because he’s hot? That’s sorta what I’ve encountered with guys who have really big penises. A couple of guys I’ve dated who have above-average ones just assume because they have that, they’re awesome in bed. A new level of cocky. Um, you still have to actually be good at sex. That big penis isn't going to do everything for you. I’d rather have a big penis than a teeny peen, but I have noticed that guys with average or smaller penises will at least sometimes work a little harder to make up for that -- and are usually way better in bed." -- Caroline, 32"I don’t know how this happened, but I am a magnet for giant dongs. Seriously. If a guy is into me, he probably has a big penis. It’s just science at this point. I shouldn’t be complaining, I guess? But for a long time I couldn’t figure out why sex was never pleasurable for me. The guy would always finish -- but I’d be left feeling like I just got run over by a truck. And the next day have to pop, like, two Aleve because I was so sore. Big penises can also inhibit the positions you can do. Doggy style was just a total no-go because it went way too deep, and even on top was tricky." -- Elizabeth, 25
"The problem with big penises are condoms. They are a serious issue with guys who have big wangs. One guy I dated was so big, it just seemed like none of them worked. It would always fall out, and a couple of times it broke, which was terrifying. You also need tons and tons of lube. It just interrupts everything, all the starting and stopping. You either need to adjust the condom, or add more lube. When I was dating that guy, I swear we went through like a bottle of lube every couple of weeks." -- Kara, 26
Things can get awfully messy
"One night I went home with this guy I'd met. We basically stumbled into his place, not even bothering to turn a light on anywhere. I get a glimpse of his cock in the light of a lamppost outside and it's huge... just long and thick and ridiculous. My drunk self decides I can take this and I'm so drunk and so horny that we get to it and he goes in dry. Hurts at first and then I'm getting wetter and wetter and it's crazy. Anyways, everything reaches its conclusion and he gets up to go for the inevitable post-coital piss. On his way out he flicks on the light. There is blood everywhere. Between him splitting me open and the lack of foreplay, his bed has turned into that hallway from The Shining. And I'm so drunk and embarrassed I throw on my clothes and 30 seconds later I'm running out of his house barefoot with blood down my legs." -- Reddit"Big dicks are fantastic... until you have anal
Not all penises are the same, and not all of them pleasure a woman the same way. There are different kinds offering different levels of pleasure.
1 The Grower. We all know this as one of the two most-prominent classifications of the penis. This is the more discreet type, because you never know just how long and big it can go, unless you go all the way with the guy. At first it might seem small, but rub it just a little and it grows 2 to 3 times its flaccid size. Magic!
2 The Shower. These are those dicks that seem mighty impressive and imposing even while in pants. The shower types are really showy, but when they get hard, the initial size and length isn’t any different.
3 The Banana. Well, the name is a giveaway. This kind of monkey pole is shaped and bent just like a banana. They may be dangling straight out when flaccid, but when they get hard, they bend down. This may make it appear small, but try it out for size; you might be surprised by how perfectly it rubs against your clitoris, and even your G-spot, with every thrust.
4 The Thor. This penis isn’t all big and ripped like the comic book hero. We called this penis type Thor because it’s shaped like a hammer. The head is big and the shaft is small, like a mushroom. This dick is perfect for touching the entirety of your vaginal walls—and, with shallow thrusts, your G-spot.
5 The Shroom. The mushroom manhood looks much like The Thor, but with more, shall we say, exaggerated features. It is typically smaller in size, and the head is more rounded, like an umbrella or a mushroom cap. To get the most of it, you’d better opt for doggy to allow for deeper thrusting, while making the base gratifyingly rub against your clitoris.
6 The “S.” This is a seemingly slithering purple monster, because it bends to one side and the other in an “S” shape. Despite its distorted shape, don’t write off this schlong as a freak of nature, because it may just make you a freak in bed. Depending on him and how he can make the most of his package, you can achieve “O” due to the tingling effect this shape brings.
7 The Chode. Wider than it is long, it is the Danny DeVito of penises. But don’t be turned off by this stump just yet. Though it can be very wide and typically stands at 4 to 5 inches, it can be very pleasurable, as it will satisfactorily fill every nook and cranny of your vagina. With deep thrusts, you can achieve maximum climax with this little fellow. Just be sure to have enough lubrication.
8 The Pencil. This love rod is, indeed, as straight as a rod. It appears straight and slim like a pencil. Its head is also almost the same width as the shaft, making it look very sleek and elongated. While this can be long, “wide” ladies won’t get much of that friction they need to get off. It can also poke your cervix, making sex painful. Woman on top and spooning are good positions.
9 The Carrot. The Carrot is perhaps the most desirable penis for women. It is slim in the end and gradually becomes thick at the base. The head is smaller and the shaft is bigger, forming a soft triangular shape that gives gradual pleasure to any woman in any position. Penetration is easy and sleek, but as the stiffy goes in deeper, the “ooh la la” sensations increase.
10 The Angry Wrestler. This penis seems angry when erect, because it has veins popping out all over it. It looks veiny, but a sexier way to put it is “angry.” So this angry old chap can turn you on as you take in the veins lining up its length. There’s something primal and raw about this member, and you may even feel a slight, yet surprisingly awesome-feeling, throbbing of the veins inside you, giving you a subtle vibrating effect
. For me I love big and thick penis. And There are several characteristics that most women look at when they make their subconscious determination about how your penis stacks up to other guys they've been with. But Do you really think women don't talk about penis size? Let's be real, how many times have you discussed with your friends about a woman's buttocks and breasts? Find out what women say concerning penis size HERE
….. I think technique is the most important regardIess of size, having a big one is useIess if you don't know how to use it, I know this is a stereotypicaI answer but it's true. Just Iike having a powerfuI car is useIess if you can't controI it.
But if I had to choose between Iength and girth I'd choose the Iatter. Iong penises are amazing, they can reach new unexpIored depths and pIeasurabIe spots you didn't even know you had, but they can be extremeIy painfuI when they tap the cervix at the end of the vagina.
Thick penises are amazing too, they may not reach those deep pIaces but it's okay because most of the pIeasure spots are near the entry of the vagina anyway. And at Ieast there is no risk of them hitting the cervix giving you excruciating pain.
The biggest I've seen is my current boyfriend, both in Iength and girth, but don't ask for numbers I never puIIed a ruIer to measure it, it's just humongous and it requires a Iot of forepIay every singIe time. We've had many threesomes so I can objectiveIy compare and none of the other guys come cIose to his size.
Having both Iength and girth Iike my boyfriend requires one to be very gentIe, it is the most important aspect of having an exceptionaIIy Iarge penis.
What about shape… Personally I think a curved penis tends to fit me better because, well, my vagina is curved. My vagina has an upward curve to it and I find inserting objects that play to my curved shape do a better job at hitting my G-spot. When it comes to penises though I'm not real picky, if the penis is attached to man I find attractive (intellectually as well as physically and emotionally), like as an individual and who treats me well then I'm going to love his penis regardless of size or shape. Since its a minor curve, there is no problem at all . But your insecurity about your penis may be a problem. Your confidence is sort of thing you should work with. You know what does make you appealing, though? Confidence. And that's where the man-thong comes in. If you're rocking that, no one will give a shit about the size or the shape of some other dude's package, they're going to be staring at you thinking, "wow, that guy might not have the biggest balls, but they're made of fucking adamantium. you know what? I'd fuck that guy, he clearly knows himself well and it takes crazy confidence to do that." And since being appealing seems to be your goal, you're good. Having a sense of humor about the whole thing and enough confidence to make it happen goes a long way in making people not think about the size or the shape of your package.
In many culture, discussing about the penis is seen as doing something which is forbidden. Irrespective of that, it is a well known fact that many men in history have shared serious concern and worry about the size of their penis and have wished having an enlarged penis. The dimension and cinch of the penis has continued to be a cause of worry and distress to men up till now.
There are several varying opinions on the subject; some women say that it's not the size of the penis that matters but it's what you do with it. Others say that size is an absolute imperative. It can all be very confusing so I am going to look at the subject scientifically to discover whether bigger really is better.
You know Many men want a bigger penis but few know the best way to go about doing so. There are various different types of penis enlargement methods out there and few really work. It is important for a man to really know what makes his penis bigger so he can fully understand what to do to make it bigger.
And Growing a bigger penis size is a smart move if this is something you have been considering. I'm going to talk about 4 reasons why it makes perfect sense and also what works the best to ensure you are able to grow a substantially larger penis size... naturally and permanently.
Personally, I love all cock. But what I especially love is to watch it. I like to see it twitch and pulse and grow slowly into the majestic magnificence that it is. After I admire it longingly, then I devour it with my mouff. I like them both.
A hard penis is useful when I want to have sex.
A soft penis is useful when I want to go out in public and not have people stare disapprovingly at my date.
When a man sends me a soft penis pic, I feel more respect for him. I think it is brave.
It would be like if I sent him a pick of my naked titties, when I'm leaning forward
Women like skillful penis owners much more than they care about the type of penises.
Men are so obsessed with penis size and get into complexes because…
Well, where do men see erect penises?
Not in real life. In showers you only see limp penises (unless you’ve weird shower pals).
You only see erect penises in porn. And of course, that’s why we get insecure because these pornstars are best of the best. They must have nicely sized penis to even be considered in that kind of business.
So…check Reddit - AveragePenis subreddit section… to see how average penis looks like.
It’s short, thick, angled in weird directions sometimes etc….
But it doesn’t matter.
I’ve talked to over 30 women about this and yeah… girth is important, but what they really remember is how skillful was the penis owner.
How he knew how to used what he got!
- Did he know how to arouse her? ..or did he just reach for her pussy without a foreplay…?
- Did he know how to control his erection? ..or did he ejaculate in first 5 minutes…or worse couldn’t stay erect?
- Did he gave her mind-blowing orgasms? …or he just gave orgasm to himself?
- Did he know how to dominate her…tease her, play with her, change positions…be a sexual man in bedroom? …or was he timid, asking all the time if she felt okay, what position she wanted next…etc?
I hope this answer makes you rethink a bit about the question.
Averages are nice. But are you an average?
Nobody is.
Sex is a skill. No size will ever give you that.
Every girl needs to try a big penis at least once in her life . Haha. It’s like a rite of passage into womanhood . I prefer well hung guys for hooking up and booty calls where there’s no emotions and no strings attached . But for a boyfriend , I don’t really mind if he has an average wee wee. It’s more about the emotional connection and not so much about wild drunken sex.
Yes, they do, unfortunately for average guys like me. I found out the hard way. When I was in my first marriage me and my wife were mods, I was 24, she was 23. At one point she goes to this mod rally on the Isle of Wight. I couldn't come as my sister was getting married. When she gets back she is really standoffish and a bit weird. I don't understand why until a friend tells me what happened. Apparently there's this new guy on the scene, ateenager from England, way younger than her. Rumour is going round he's hung, as in huge. Wife's BFF who is single has heard and tells Rachel, my wife. The two of them follow him into the men's bathroom to find out and yes, he's huge. He spent most of the weekend fucking them (loved their big tits apparently). Obviously I'm heartbroken, but we talk it through, and she assures me it was a one off. Two years later she goes on a girly hols with two girl from work, to Crete. She comes back and again seems weird. She refuses to have sex with me, apparently she's hurting down there, she has no idea why. Well, she's had a row with one of the girls who tells me exactly why. There was this East European guy working at their hotel, second day he's wearing swimming trunks, and the girls can tell he is huge. So Rachel seduces him with her big tits, and her and Alice, one of the other girls, spend all week fucking him. Hence the painful vag. The girl who told me was the third one who only got to fuck him once as she wasn't his type (no tits) so she was jealous. Belive me, they are obsessed! The one that has a driver that knows what is doing. The size some says matter some others do, but when there is lack of size, there are tongue and foreplay and know how to do with the one the male has. When there is big even must know what to do with it and combine to give pleasure to the women not just take and take.
Women like to be asked, whether they want pictures of a penis.
When you have asked, you will get different answers. Because women are different. Just like men have different preferences, women do too.
- Some women will say that no pictures is the best.
- Some women will say they don't care.
- Some women will say they only want their partners picture. And then they will tell their partner what they prefer.
- Some women who likes to see such pictures, will also happily answer which they prefer.
But all women would agree that you should ask them first.
And most women would be offended, if you told them that you read online that women prefer one type of picture, so that is what she'll get, regardless of her personal preferences.
It should be of normal size.
But size doesn't matter for many of the women's.
But the main thing
You should know the art of satisfaction .
How you perform in bed.?
How you make your partner excited?
How you undress her?
Which position and how you perform during intercourse
This things matter
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